The moment that second line pops up on the pregnancy test, your heart begins to fill with feelings. One of those feelings you might feel is fear. Fear might sound like: I’m scared to tell my partner I’m pregnant. I can’t do this. My parents are going to be so mad. I need an abortion right away. Do I want an abortion – I’m not even sure.
Those are all big, scary questions, and honestly, valid questions. No matter what decision you make about the outcome of your accidental pregnancy, your life and your partner’s life will never be the same. It’s vital to have a conversation with your partner, but no doubt, it’s daunting. And if your relationship isn’t a stable one, it can feel nearly impossible.
Fortunately, we are experts in accidental pregnancy and are here to offer a few pieces of advice. Keep reading below to get helpful tips for the big talk.
know your options and get screened
If you’re scared to tell your partner you are pregnant, being equipped with data and facts can make it easier. Facts are the best anecdote to fear. Here at Option 1, we specialize in personalized pre-abortion screenings where you’ll get the following data:
- Am I for sure pregnant?
- Is my pregnancy in my uterus or is it ectopic?
- How far along am I?
- Does it appear viable?
- Do I have an STI that could put me at risk for Pelvic Inflammatory Disease?
- What are the pros and cons of abortion, parenting, and adoption?
All of our screenings are zero-cost. Our registered nurses are passionate about empowering women to make safe and healthy choices for the outcome of their pregnancy.
Get support
Before the talk with your partner, it’s important to get support from a trusted friend, or someone like us, to walk you through some of the topics that might come up. We’re experts at tough conversations about accidental pregnancies and strive to help every woman feel like she can do this; because we whole-heartedly believe she can.
During your screening, your registered nurse is available to help talk you through the questions you have, but only if you want. This is your appointment and there is zero pressure.
Pick a safe place and time
The day of the conversation, it’s critical you have the conversation at a place that you feel comfortable. Also, it’s important to pick a time where you both can be undistracted and focus on the pregnancy. Remember, it’s a big decision, and it’s not a choice that should be rushed. Take your time to decide – you have plenty.
Some good public places to talk: the park, a coffee shop, over dinner, on a walk along a quiet street
IMPORTANT: if you think your news will be met with violence, give the news to your partner in a public place or with a trusted friend to support you. Don’t put yourself in danger in any way.
We’re here to help
We hope you never need us, but if you do, we’re here. Our pre-abortion screenings are an extremely helpful place to start. Schedule your appointment online anytime by tapping here.
an informed decision is the best kind of decision.